http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2012/nov/02/tim-dowling-angry-wife
This is an article in the guardian that I think beautifully illustrates a psychoanalytic concept.
Tim Dowling in his funny weekend cartoon sketch has just written the perfect description of projective identification. http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2012/nov/02/tim-dowling-angry-wife